THOUGHTS ON MARRIAGE, MOTHERHOOD AND GRAND-PARENTING

THOUGHTS ON MARRIAGE, MOTHERHOOD AND GRAND-PARENTING

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Identity of Women

Last night we went to dinner at Copper Onion in SLC with our dear friends, Jenn and Kyle McKay.  Incidentally I do highly recommend the restaurant.  During dinner Jenn and I were talking about the world, children and mothering and she reminded of a talk given by Julie B. Beck ( General Relief Society President of the LDS Church) that she gave this spring at BYU's Womens Conference.  I had attended and remembered being enthralled with her talk.  I came home last night and brought it up on the internet and after reading it remembered why I had been so touched by it.  One reason I love Julie Beck is she doesn't sugar coat many things.  She tells it exactly the way the Lord wants it told.  Here are a few paragraphs that have inspired me to be better in my role as a woman
"There is an interesting, exciting, and unique female identity of greatness, richness, that is choice beyond comparison. And this identity that the Lord has given us and that we understand through the gospel of Jesus Christ, is in direct contrast to the debased and devalued identity of women that we find in the world today. We find an elevated, strong identity that comes from our Heavenly Father. This identity and purpose can only be fully understood through a spiritual confirmation. There is an intellectual study that can be made, but a spiritual confirmation is what teaches us who we are and what we are to do. There is much out in the world that is false by way of identity. There are identities of sensuality, women seeking power, prestige, money, leisure—all of these things are different identities. But the identity of a daughter of God is precious beyond compare, and rich, and full. We know that women are the guardians of the hearth and the home. And they have the responsibility for the hearts and souls of men and women and the children of our Heavenly Father. They are given this powerful and influential leadership role. Female responsibilities include being a wife, include being a mother, a daughter, a sister, an aunt, a friend. This is all about nurturing, teaching, and influencing. These are non-negotiable responsibilities. We can’t delegate them. We can accept them and live them, but these are things we understood before we were born, and we can’t negotiate with the Lord about whether or not these are our responsibilities. They have been part of the plan from the beginning; they are not going to change because of any clamor to the contrary. These are our responsibilities.
 Our Heavenly Father loves His daughters, and because He loves us and the reward at the end is so glorious, we do not get a pass from the responsibilities we were given. We cannot give them away. They are our sacred duties and we fulfill them under covenant."
If you would like to read the rest of the article go here.
Have an incredible Sunday

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